It’s Over

I don’t have relationships just for the sake of company or status or comfort.

I’m a naturally happy person on my own. I love myself and if work is not invested on both sides that relationship won’t survive just on me putting in the work.

I can go on in life with little love… but people making deliberate efforts to wipe the smile off my face just because I’m happy without their input at all… is really something I don’t need.

You know… when there is a mismatch in what you see and what you hear…  always trust your eyes and your gut feeling. I felt something wasn’t quite right when I gave plenty of solutions to make the relationship work yet they kept only finding excuses not to follow them through.

And it’s ok if people like living in a lie. Pretending they have no issues whatsoever and blaming you for not accepting his consistent hurtful mistakes as if was my life mission put up with his shit time and time again just because I’m bulletproof.

So… here… a beautiful song that deals with this kind of frustrating experience of life.

“And you wanna have it all, so high you never fall
And I don’t think that you will ever change”.

“And it’s over now!! I swear…. but you don’t care”.

Wild women live for the now. They don’t live for “later” or “tomorrow”. No. Life it’s happening now.  And just the fact someone thinks they can do something with us “later”…   seriously indicates that person is just not who we want to celebrate and share our lives with. Wild women love themselves too much to stay in a relationship just out of comfort… just out of moral duty, just out of because that’s what you do once you get married you resign. Hell no. Having an average comfortable dull relationship and lifestyle is never among a woman my kind…

Want to avoid getting involved in such a relationship or want to know where I got my power and determination to escape such relationships? A blog post is coming soon.

Wild women are conscious and aware our time in the world is limited and our goals reach beyond just being a wife and a mother. So we do not wish to waste our lives when what should be simple gets unnecessarily complicated with someone we can’t even justify being in an emotional relationship with because he just seems to aim to hurt us or cut our wings short.

 

 

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“And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you don’t care
And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you dont care

You look me in the eyes and lie right to my face
I dont deserve this shit, I really need some space
You lost my trust again and it can’t be replaced

And you wanna have it all, so high you never fall
And I don’t think that you will ever change

And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you don’t care
And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you don’t care

Why the fuck would you lie, what is there left to hide
You hold it deep inside and you have so much pride
I lay here all alone, while you stay out all night

And I don’t need a reason, cause you’re changing like the season
And I don’t know why the fuck I still try

And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you don’t care
And it’s over now, and I’m sober now
I swear, but you don’t care.”

 

 

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